aha moments

Each and every one of us have moments in time where we get an aha moment. It could be where you are in a moment of time..and take a second to enjoy it. aha! It could be when you finally figure out what it is you want to do in your life. aha! It could be that you admit to failure and can take steps to move forward. aha! I have been working on figuring myself out lately. Newly divorced, single mom, new job, you name it I'm expiriencing it right now. I'm in the wave pool of my life right now. ups and downs getting shoved around, going under for a bit, swimming back up, enjoying the wave... What a ride huh? I noticed so many people are great at giving advice. They may not have ever been where I am, but they know what I'm going through right? Well... I've had several aha moments lately. What I do with these moments is what matters. If I waste an aha moment and play it safe...well...that's not acceptable. I will try to remember that as I move forward...You can point your finger at me if I dont. This is a journey I'm on right now...moving forward to the end reward of contentment...Aha!!

getting on with my life

Now that title in itself is a tough thing to do. So many people say get over it, move forward, well...I am trying to get on with my life. Newly divorced with 2 teenagers, new job, new outlook on life. Lots of stress to go along with that. I knew it wouldn't be an easy thing to do, but what's difficult is all of the advice and judgement of people who could do it way better if they were in my shoes. So...here goes...the next chapter of my life. Getting on with it. I'll let you know how it goes. :)